The expressions, Vaazhkai murai and Vazhkaittharam
(வாழ்க்கை முறை மற்றும் வாழ்க்கைத் தரம்) are recent additions to the Tamil
vocabulary, being the translation of the English terms “way of life”
and “standard of living”. What we should do, think and say, from the
time we get up from bed in the morning till we go to sleep in the
night, are determined in our Saastraas and goes by the name of Aachaara-anushtaanam. But, as this has a religious bias, secular-minded people have come to prefer the expression, vaazhkai murai.
It has been laid down that when we get up in the morning, we must do Narayana smaranam (thinking of Sri Narayana and uttering his holy name). Thereafter follow the duties of the day (like saucham, snaanam
शौचetc. for cleansing the system of all impurities internal and
external). There are rules, methods and time for each duty. But these aachaaras
(daily practices) vary according to the region of the country. If we
take an overall picture of the whole of India, we find that each part
of the country lays emphasis on a particular aachaara. For
example, in Kerala, almost everyone bathes only in tanks or rivers and
people go to temples wearing wet clothes after bathing. In Bengal,
widows of all communities shave their heads. They observe complete fast
on Ekadasi day, without taking even a drop of water. They also cook
their own food and will not touch fish, a common article of food in the
Bengal diet. In some parts of the country, people wear a separate
cloth known as madi, when taking food. In Uttar Pradesh one
person will not drink from another person’s vessel. Each person will
carry his drinking bowl wherever he goes. These and other observances
constitute the aachaaras and anushtaanas of the
country; but, as in the story of the blind men and the elephant, people
in each part of the country firmly believe that only what they observe
is aachaara, and that a differing practice is anaachaara.